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Captains ball today was fun, even though my team came in third. We tied out first game, but we lost 2-1 when we played extra time. We won out third and fourth placings game and we were very happy that we enjoyed ourselves. I am thankful to my whole team: CHERLIE, JESYLYNN, WEI DONG, RYAN, JERIMIAH, MALCOM, TECK WEE, and last but not least SOON XIANG. Tallies rocks!!!! WE'LL BE COMING BACK NEXT YEAR. [it is better you be a team that plays clean, has good sportsmanship and integrity, as compared to a team who wins but is hated by all the other teams because of their rough physical play, their dirty ways and their lack of sportsmanships.] I think our team did great, esp the girls who i felt worked really hard to score during the first halves of each game!!

I just wish for better referees in the near future for any of such events. SERIOUSLY!!!
SOMETIMES IT IS BETTER TO BE IN THE WRONG EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE NOT AT FAULT, AS IT MAKES THE OTHER PARTY FEEL BETTER THAN TO KNOW THAT HE/ SHE IS ALWAYS THE ONE TO BE BLAMED FOR ALL THE ERRORS.

A LEADER IS SOMEONE WHO DISTRIBUTES THE WORK LOAD ENTRUST UPON THE TEAM, NOT SOLELY TAKING EVERYTHING INTO YOUR OWN HANDS. NOT EVERYONE MAY BE UP TO YOUR STANDARD AND LEVEL OF EXPECTATIONS, SO DO NOT ALWAYS EXPECT TOP CLASS QUALITY.

WHEN A TEAM MEMBER IS DOWN, HELP ENCOURAGE HE/SHE, AND NOT STAND STILL THERE, WITHOUT ANY REACTIONS.

LAST BUT NOT LEAST, DO NOT GOSSIP OF SOMEONE NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE GOSSIPING.
The many thoughts and problems flooding my mind has persuaded me to publish this post. Over the recent weekend, i had a great time with Jerlynn, we had a sumptuous feast at East Coast Food Centre, we had bbq wings, cockles, vegetables, satay, and sugarcane. We ate till out hearts content and we walked along the beach. I could say that i enjoyed it cos it was rather romantic as we sat on the stoned chair and watched the waves crash on the shores. The chair we chose was rather unique, as the waves managed to rise till the area which we were surrounded by, so every time a strong wave crashes in, our feet area would be filled with sea water, just like a moat around a palace. I can say that she enjoyed the moments spent together along the beach under the nearly full moon, where the stars twinkled brightly above us like diamonds.

I slept till 1230hrs on sat. I was supposed to go down to AMK church for the "learn how to preach" session conducted by Kenneth Wong, but it was too late, plus the car was not around to send me to church. I was really disappointed with myself as i really wanted to attend the session, and from it learn some tips on preaching or sharing in a large group. What a wasted opportunity!!! =((
Afer eating maggii noodles for lunch, i tried sitting down to do some work, but my brain was messed up, lots of thoughts other than sch work filled me. I had a phone call from a stranger asking me for my address, saying that one of my aunties had lost their way, and need directions to my house. The person told me that they were at East Coast Mansions, and i was really stunned cos not was i afraid that it could be some scam, and i also had no idea where East Coast Mansions was located, so how in the world was i going to direct them from a place i do not even know??? I really did not know what to do. I hanged up, called my Mom who said she was on her way home in the car, and she told me that my auntie was coming, for what reason i also did not know, neither did i bother to ask. My auntie finally arrived, with a car lift from some kind Singaporean, who knew where i lived. I asked my maid to attend to the guest but when my auntie entered, she started shouting, JAMES AH< JAMES AH, YOU CAN COME DOWN FOR A WHILE??? I was really shocked as i was in the midst of my movie, and i grudgingly went down to entertain her for a while, i was afraid that she might steal some of our things, as she is not really a sensible person. Thankfully my parents came back in-time to rescue me from my misery.

After my movie, i was really tired, but i knew i had to do some work, but i also had to head down to Jerlynn house for the weekly meal at her place, and so i packed my bag, got dressed and went out. I managed to read both MICRO and POM notes on the journey there. Had dinner really late, like at 8.30 and we ate till 9.30 plus, watched some television and i was soon heading home. Though, in betweens was filled with lots of tit-bits to satisfy Jerlynn's cravings....HAHAHAHAHAHSSSS!!!! =))

I felt so darn tired that i did not even wanna go home from her house, but i had church the next morning. Other than that fact, there was nothing holding me back. I slept on the journey back, feeling like a zombie, i alighted and changed bus to go home at Tanjong Katong. I was home at 12pm plus, and i was really dead tired. I forced myself to do my micro, even if it means not sleeping through the whole night. I knew for sure that i wouldn't be able to find time to complete all my tutorials plus my freaking projects from SAS, POM, EBM, and DBIS. I knew i die die had to complete my work before the week started. I stayed up till i completed my micro tutorial and then went to bed, knowing that i had to wake up that same morning at 7.45am to go to church. I was going to die for sure, cos i had SAS meeting in TP after church.

Sunday morning, the first time my brother joined the rest of us to go to AMK church. After selling his car last week, he has been reliant on my dad's fetching and ferrying to go in and out of the house. There was a different sensation which i felt in the car as we journeyed to church. Though we were late, it seemed as if there was a valid reason. In fact there are valid REASONS. Firstly, we only have 1 toilet available for 5 ppl to use. Secondly, it was the last sunday of the month, and there was some situation with my maid and my parents as they talked abt some financial issue, and i was rushing to pack my bag for SAS meeting later on at 2.30pm.
Despite my little hours of rest, i managed to survive through the morning service without sleeping. I left early from sunday school as my brother proposed to eat at tht NUS guild house, aka NUSS....since the maid was out, which meant no lunch, plus the fact that he had $500/- dining vouchers there, we agreed to go. It was really a family lunch, were my other siblings discussed issues about the house, what my dad's plans were, whether or not we were going to renovate or sell the house, and in the future how is the house going to be distributed. I could see the selfishness of my siblings cos i was keeping quiet all the while, since i had no say in any of their talk. WHY????? cos of the simple fact; i am not working!!! =?

After lunch, i rushed all the way to TP, i had to postpone the meeting till 3 and i only reached there at 4pm. We had to wait for a seat at the restaurant as my brother did not make a reservation, and we also had to wait 15 mins for our desert, plus we kinda lost our carpark lot where our car was parked. I felt really really bad and wanted to get something for my grp members, but i could not find anything. My grp was really slacking at Biz park, AH SOON was greatly engrossed with JEREMY'S I-TOUCH, and after that he switched over to his PSP. When we moved to level 5, where we supposedly thought that there was air-con, everybody became more slack. Soon Xiang was playing his PSP, jeremy was focused mainly on converting the videos into his i-touch, teck wee and i were doing out POM work and we were not even discussing about SAS. To be honest, i think among all of us, i feel that Jeremy is the most slacker and he needs to be appointed work then he MIGHT budge and move to do something, if not he would be playing maple, checking movie timings, chatting on MSN, or doing some other crap things which are not related to SAS. After our meeting, teck wee and i had planned on friday to go watch a movie at TM, we wanted to watch "The Kingdom" but Jeremy self-invited himself. Oh well, i had nothing to say but to agree to let him come. Not only did he eat alot, he still wanted TW to send him back home. I felt that that was really too much. He is not even close to TW and still he does this kinda things, but its understandable, after what i had experienced when my sas grp came my house, jeremy was the outstanding one who went for second round and wanted an extra drink, he was also the one who finished the bee-hoon and left nothing for my poor maid to eat. All i can say is that Jeremy is either really a Big eater, a glutton and a pig!!!!!

Movie was great, enjoyed myself and now i had to go home to try to do POM work. I went online and immediately started discussing with my POM grp members abt the organinsing section which is dued on tuesday. I was really irritated and pissed off, cos my parents were nagging at me, plus on top of that i was having a slight fever and my entire back was aching all over. As the night progressed on, my temperature started rising. I took Panadol but it did not seem to work. I was still feeling feverish and sick. Still i persevered and endured the pain, cos i wanted to help my POM grp in any possible way i could. But all i heard was Malia telling Saliha that this part was not professional, that part is wrong, teck wee's part was slightly wrong, blah blah blah, and she said that she was disappointed in me for now reading the question properly, when in actual fact i did, but i was just too tired and sick too think and argue with her. I just told her off, but she defended herself, saying that she did not like somewhat 'scold' me. Well, i was too annoyed and aggravated by my illness that i decided to go rest. I buzzed TW and told him that i was sick, and i needed and wanted to rest early, and i went to lie on my bed. The next thing i know, i was waking up on Monday morning at 9 plus, doing my POM work.
I GUIDES camp last weekend started off rather boring and not as interesting as i thought it would turn out to be. My group was not enthu abt anything, cheers was so crappy, not one soul volunteered or cracked his or her mind to think of a cheer. Things only started picking up on friday night, when we sat under mushroom to eat Mcdonalds which we ordered after we had our bath at 2am plus. We were tired out but we decided not to sleep, and we just managed to last till 4am, talking and laughing. Ohohohoh!!!!before that, Jerlynn my baby girl cried cos JJ, WD and I were irritating the rest while walking from one block to another block in engine school, and we were all alone walking through the corridors of level five, a deserted block due to construction work. Poor minzee was tearing badly and i had to comfort her by hugging her...

Second day at the camp was worst, with all the SUPPOSED talks by diff organisations, but all the people were all MIA, and we ended up playing some lame ass games, and the group named "spoilers" were really screwing up the I-Guides programme, they basically took everything into their hands, cheering and booing whenever they wanted, and shouted like mad when playing the games. eg. "where's the peanut" I voiced my unhappiness to Iris and Janice, but they could not do much until the main comm took actions. HAHS!! They quited themselves down shortly after a talk by the main comm organisers. The t-shirt design was rather interesting for me, getting to see people's creativity and artistic side. Mark and Vivian can really draw man, esp mark, who is not even in design school. I wander where he got his talents from. =)
Mass dance followed that shortly after our lunch, and i can say that was the only time i was feeling the rah-rahness building inside me. I was so ecstatic and glad that i managed to experience that feeling. Even though i was not happy with Jerlynn dancing with ryan, i was able to bear with it cos i knew she wouldn't let him do anythin funny and also because of the simple fact that if i were partnering Jerlynn, i wouldn't think we would end up dancing. We would most prob be cuddling each other la. HAHAHAHAHAHAASSSS!!!!!!

Anyways, i am super tired and shack from a long day at school, and just played 2 games of Captain's ball, plus lots of frissbee throwing. Tiring for me, tiring for everyone. The worst part today was when i was deliberately pushed from the back by a fat furker who sent me straight to the ground, flat. I was so darn angry that i wanted to stand back up and punch him straight in his face, but i thought of the team getting disqualified. Thankfully i managed to sustain my anger, and chill!! Thankfully we did not lose, nor did we win. We drew 4-4, and it was a very tough and rough match, in fact, its the first time i had experienced so many pushes, bumps, knocks and fouls in just 12 mins. We went on to thrashing our second match 11-0 before we headed for the showers due to a lack of time. I injured my neck and got some small abrasions from that rough push. My left outer calve is hurting like mad now, and i am super worried about it.

I am super touched that jerlynn came to watch me play, and i was embarrassed when she saw me fall, even though it was not my fault. I felt touched that she came to support me even though she had so much work piling up on her mind. I really felt the stress load for her as she listed out the amt of work she has to complete and the deadlines are not far away. My poor girl is also having some difficulties breathing and i am worried it might develop to something worse. So i am praying that all would seem right and well tmr when she wakes up to do her work. Hope i am able to wake up to call her up by 6am. I dun wanna be holding her back from her work, cos we both made a promise to work harder that our previous semesters' and we must strive to give our very best. We also came up with a moss-code whenever we wanna leave or seperate ourselves from our frens or the zee-family. We would have to say anything that has to do with flying. Super cool, but its kinda lame for the both of us...hahahahahhsSS!!!! <3 I LOVE YA GIRL!!!!
The past 2 weeks hasn't been goofy good for me. I have had lots of assignments and tutorials to complete that i feel as if i did not give sufficient time to Jerlynn, though we still met up on friday and saturday. Soccer last friday was rather slow and boring, firstly because the pitch was all muddy and soft, and secondly the players were all so slow, making it not as interesting as compared to playing with people of my same standard. Dinner was great on saturday, really love the food Jerlynn's mom had cooked and prepared. THANK YOU! =)

EBM presentation was a screw up for many in class, that Norshida just kept shooting super difficult questions and her deal of deducting 10 marks from each group who fails to ask at least 2 questions to the presenting group was too ridiculous. Teck wee and i strongly disagreed and felt that she was too strict on us. My group managed to link most of our points back to E-Business and i felt that our group was one of the few who had good presenters and we were yet able to answer most of the questions asked except for the one that Norshida asked. I was taken aback by the fact that our company is also selling our products under other beauty brands. In fact, i think our entire group was shocked upon the revealing of this point. At the end of our presentations, i stayed back and noticed Darren arguing with Norshida, and he was on the brink of tearing, cos his group did not do as well as they expected. I strongly felt that he should not have argues with her, as this would cause her to mark him down in the future. And if my ears were not wrong, his group is considering on firing the malay guy.

School yesterday was super long and tiring for me. After lecture, i went to Biz Park to go eat and do my microeconomics. I met Jerlynn there too, and we talked. She ended up sitting on my lap, in front of her friends and my friends saw it too. I completed my microeconomics tutorial with some assistance from Soon Xiang and Teck wee, and we went for BA lecture a little late, that we had to sit right in front where we had to strain our necks to look really high at the power-point slides. During micro tutorial, i realized that my tutorial worksheet was missing, and i was darn irritated by that fact. I felt as if someone had a motive to frame me and accuse me of not doing my work. You could say that my mood was somewhat affected by the loss of my tutorial work. After micro tutorial, went to slack outside the library with malia, saliha, and kenneth. I went to eat at Biz park again, the same dish i ate earlier, chicken chop, and met Jerlynn, and she could tell that my mood was different. She came over and talked to me and she cheered me up a little. I wanted to blog of so much things at that point of time while eating halfway. I was feeling rather agitated still, but soon the feeling went away!!!! =]]

I am now doing some editing to the SAS survey that my group came up with, and i think we are going to print it our later in school and distribute the survey forms for people to complete. We also need to compile the results from the survey and present it in an excel spreadsheet. In this SAS survey, i think the most slacker would be Jeremy, cos of the fact that he cannot come online everyday and any ordinary day when he's in Singapore, and my group members find it rather hard to allocate work to him, and also because he is a freaking gamer, the last meeting we had on Deepavali in school for SAS, he was 80% of the time he was online playing maple, looking for movie timings, everything else except that which was related to our SAS project. Teck wee and i really don't like this fact, and we are really irritated by it. I don't know whether teck wee is still angry with the fact that Leah was late the previous meeting too. Just wish that the same thing doesn't happen in the future meetings.

On monday, i managed to make jerlynn cheer up by just standing next to her, and making her sianned day not so sian any more. Yesterday was somewhat similar, i would thus infer that she cannot resist the fact that i am around her and she would or might not maintain herself when i am around her. Regarding about what her parents said about me, i would take it positively and i am looking forward on the 18th to meet her other distant family members as they have a combined celebration of Jerlynn's birthday together with her cousin's birthday, I THINK!!! HAHAHAHHASS!!!

Gonna do sas tutorial now....ciaos! =)
Wednesday seemed alright only until the part where Jacqueline started messaging me, and telling me how much she missed me and how she was doing without her Edwin in her life....i was so darn irritated that i just wanted to call her and shout "FUCK YOU BITCH" until she started crying....but i didn't! WHY, i also don't know. She kept on asking me what i wanted between the both of us, as if we were something in the past. We were just normal friends and i think she treats me as a substitute. She came to me when Edwin and her could not talk to one another due to O levels, and parents restrictions, she also came to me whenever she quarreled with him and she came to me whenever she "missed" hearing my voice. WTF man!!!! I have never met anyone in my life who is that selfish and that self-centered. She has no feelings whatsoever towards how i felt, how i am now, whether i have another girl in my life, whether i am coping with my studies or even my previous knee injury has been. Instead she starts a conversation with me by saying that she misses me and wants to be mine....seriously FUCK THAT MAN!!!! I don't even know her, and she wants me to be hers, when she is still attached to EDWIN, who by the way is not 1% good looking at all, neither is she, okays, maybe 3%??? Perhaps, varying on different preferences. After messaging her like what seemed the entire afternoon, i went to meet Huimin, who immediately cheered me up when i saw her bubbly face!!! =DD Met her to together with her classmates at BIZ PARK, where they were using my LAPPIE to do some research and work. I den decided to go home to take "Discovering Computers and Excel" books for Huimin. I forgot to bring them to school earlier. My crumpler bag was killing me already, and i wanted to like carry another seperate bag to split the load. Went home, bathed and changed, took the required books, and some extra stuff, and went back to school. At the interchange, i then remembered that i forgot to bring my glasses! DANG!!! NVM, went to school, met them at the basketball courts, and somehow i started playing basketball. It was rather boring for me, not because i did not like basketball, but because there was not much to play among ourselves. I wanted to play a proper 5v5 match if i were to sweat it out in my white skinnies, and puma shoes. But there was no one to compete with, so we just played among ourselves. After playing for like 3-4 hrs, my back and legs started aching, probably because i have not exercised much recently.

After basketball, went opposite school to eat, drink, and laugh ourselves out. We had some beer, and we had our meals happily, well, everyone except Don and Si Qi. I think that Don was not really fair in asking the whole group other than me, and Huimin to go to TM to meet him. I clearly remembered Amanda telling all of us that he was goin home via car, and that he was not joining us. When we boarded 23, he called Amanda and asked where we were and that he wanted to meet up with us. Huimin and I left earlier cos we had our own plans, and partly also because we thought that we need not travel all the way to TM when its not even out faults. We took 27 to Sengkang, and we crashed home rather late. The bus ride on 27 was super uncomfortable, people pushing and shoving their bags and bodies against me, causing me much discomfort, and even some guys bag hit my shoulder so hard that it hurt for a while. Back at HOME 2, i was not feeling any good, my back was stiffen and i could barely walk from our stop back home, cos i was carrying a 10kg backpack and a 15kg sling bag. Huimin was carrying my laptop, and i dare say that i wasn't feeling too good on the walk to her place, but i didn't wanna show it, fearing that she might take some load from me and injure herself my over-straining herself. So i just bared with it till we reached the door step. I was so relieved that everything didn't matter what happened after that.

What happened at her place is kept between the both of us, but all i can say that i had a great time sleeping over at her place on wednesday night, and i also discovered some new things about her. HAHAHASS!!!! I shall not disclose any thing more than what i wanna say. I think that she is a wonderful girl, filled with emotions, feelings, love, concern, very receptive, and open to all new things. I think that she is unique and special to me. I would never never ever wanna lose such a girl like her, even if she does not accept me in the future, i would still keep in contact with her. I PROMISE! =))

Thursday, Deepavali, was nothing facinating. Went back to school for SAS project. I took 27 back to school, and the bus was so bloody crowded, had to stand. Though my bag was lighter, the pain in my back did not seem to go away after a long night's sleep. My back was just crying out to me each time the bus jerked on the brakes...i had to hold on so tightly as if i was like some old person. I somewhat regretted playing bball on wednesday. BUT, i played it cos of friends, maybe i gave too much there. Anyways, i was not too late for our meeting. But Jeremy and Leah was late, and i mean really late. Jeremy was 50 mins late, his excuse- he came from Malaysia, still acceptable. Leah was 2hrs late. We started playing Dota initially, but we got bored and we started work first. I was rather pissed initially, but i choose not to get mad, if not it would have affected both my mood and my participation in contributing to the grp later. I knew Teck Wee was super pissed with Leah, he did not even say a word, to her, nor did he look at her. At one point, Leah started to rub her eyes, and i think she was tearing...I THINK! After which, she said that she would do all the remaining work, hoping that it would help the situation, but we didn't buy it. I responded to her by saying that we are a slackers' group, and that she need not be so stressed up. We continued with whatever we could, till i found out that dinner at Huimin's place was supposed to be at 6.30. All the long i thought that it was at 8.00pm. I started getting worried and that i would not make in time, so i asked T.W to send me home. His car is rather small and cute, and he drives rather smoothly. HAHAS!!! Don't tell him that!

Went home, changed bathed and went to Huimin's house again in a cab. Thankfully the driver sped there, even though i was late, the main goal of going there fast was not to make Huimin wait too long, cos she was already hungry and i did not want her to get all moody. The meal was a great one, reminded me of chinese new year...HAHAHS!!! Crabs, steamed fish, clams, asparagus, fish more soup....one of my favourites. YUMMY!!! Had 2 glasses of red wine, and i turned red like instantly la. Went to lie on her bed, and the next thing i knew was Huimin asking me to leave her house, if not i could not go home. So i got up, and left asap, hoping not to miss the last bus. I just managed to catch the last bus home. PHEW!!!

Just realised that i got like BA work to do, and i am still blogging. Alrighty man, gonna do some work even though my eyes are like shutting close now. I wanna play dota aft that too...HAHAHASSS!!!! Or maybe watch prison break....=)
Today's post is with a very special person. She has the hard copy of what i have written, so no one else can know what i have written....too tired to type out. YUPS!!! Going to sleep and wake up in a few hours time!!! NIGHTYS!!!
The run of 6km in 35min in the last 3 months is a personal best for me thus far!!! I enjoyed it and managed to clear all my thoughts on my mind, and straighten myself. I basically get the message loud and clear from our conversation over the phone just now. She teared cos she did not wanna lose me when she read that paragraph on my previous post, well, all i gotta say is that she is thinking too far off. There is no chance that Nat and i might get back together again through a patch. Its not something i can see in the long run and i don't want it to happen.

She sent me an email while i was out running. I am glad to be part of the ZEE family. HAHAHS!!! JAMESZEE!!!! well, i loved the last paragraph of the mail, i could tell that she really mean everything in the mail, especially the last paragraph which meant alot to me, after having a not so pleasant day. It lifted my heart!!! THANKS DEAR!!! In my opinion, i think and feel that our relationship is moving forward, not too fast for me to catch up though. I hope it isn't too fast for her, cos i would want her to experience and capture every moment of it, esp the GOOD AND CHEERFUL HAPPY TIMES!!!

I am sorry for what i gave to Nat, and i seriously hope that you would forgive me, i did not mean to hurt ya in any way, and yet i did not wanna hide it from ya, thats why i blogged it. I honestly hope that through this small issue, we can strengthen our relationship bind, and bond with one another. Gonna sleep naw!!!! NIGHTS DEAR!!! LOVE YA!!!! =))